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Have You Heard of the
Four
Steps to Friendship with God
“The friendship
of the Lord is for those who fear Him”
(for those who
look upon Him with reverential awe)
Psalm
25:14
1.
Step One
Know that God loves you with an
everlasting love and wants to bless you and fellowship with
you.
The Bible says that our heavenly Father has
a plan for each of our individual lives. To fulfill that plan
is nothing less than ultimate success in life. But we need to
hear Him, so that He can lead us into His plan for our lives.
But to do that, we need to be connected to Him through a
personal loving relationship. All of us have a great need to
hear that “still small voice” of God so that we can receive His
guidance and know more about the plan He has for our lives. We
need communication with Him all through the day, allowing Him to
speak to us by placing His thoughts in our minds. We need to
hear Him teach us as we read the Scriptures. We need to seek to
hear Him much as a child seeks the guidance of a parent. As a
child of God, we need to begin by receiving the love that our
heavenly Father offers so unsparingly.
Why is it important to receive God’s
love?
“But as many as received Him (Jesus), to
them He gave the right to become God’s children, to those who
believe in Him” (John 1:12). See also Rom. 8:15b.
2. Step Two
The knowledge that God offers His love
to you every hour of every day may not be new to you; what
may be new is that you have to receive Him who is love or
His loving forgiveness will not become yours.
Generally, humanity gives and receives
human love. That is because most people have not received God’s
love. We cannot give something we do not have. It is vital in
all of our lives that we receive God’s love so that we can love
Him back and love those around us with His love.
The essence of salvation is receiving God’s
forgiveness, which is part of His love. So all Christians begin
by receiving His love. If we are born again, we have already
received His loving forgiveness. At any time, we can open the
door and ask Him to come in—even right now, you can simply tell
Him that you want to know Him personally and live with Him
forever—that you want to love and obey Him—that you know that
Jesus paid the penalty for your sin on the cross and now offers
you His loving forgiveness. Then out of simple faith in what
God has said, open the door and receive Him. Receive His love,
His forgiveness and the fullness of His Holy Spirit. But to
grow up in the Christian life, we must continue to receive His
gift of forgiveness because we continue to sin. That is
difficult because humanity is difficult.
3. Step Three
“If you will humble yourselves under the
mighty hand of God, in His good time, He will lift you up” (1st
Peter 5:6). See also Matt. 23:12, Luke 18:14.
Know that humility is absolutely
necessary to receive God’s love—to be lifted up by our
heavenly Father.
We must put aside the love and concern we
have for ourselves to make room for the love of another. God’s
love is all around us all the time. If we make room, He will
surely come in.
You may ask, “How can I control this ego of
mine and humble myself so that I can receive God’s love?” Our
ego doesn’t want to be dependent on anyone; it wants others to
be dependent on us, so that we appear to be someone special.
But there is only One who is not dependent on anyone and that is
God.
It is said that a humble person does not
stoop smaller than he is; he stands at his real height seeing
the reality of how small he is compared to God. When he
humbles himself, he does not have to put on an act anymore
because he has the real thing. Humility causes us to begin
to fit into God’s kingdom and into the purpose He has for our
lives which is fellowship with Himself. In trusting
humility, we can open the door of our hearts and receive God’s
love through a real, personal, loving relationship (Revelation
3:20). Then, through the power of His love, we have the
strength to overcome our old sinful nature and love Him back.
Because He loves us first, we are able to do our part and
complete an exchange of love.
Where does this exchange of love lead?
“The friendship of the Lord is for those
who fear Him” (Psalm 25:14). See also Proverbs 19:23, 1st
Cor. 1:9, John 15:9-11.
4.
Step Four
With reverential awe (fear of the
Lord), we can be a friend of God. Through a close, personal
relationship (an exchange of love), we can have loving
companionship and that peace “that passes all understanding” now
and throughout eternity.
The communication that comes out of this
loving relationship brings us into the very presence of the
Lord, and that produces the reverential awe that the Bible calls
the fear of God. Psalm 33:8 says, “Let all the earth fear the
Lord—let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of Him.”
In verse 18 of the same chapter, it says, “Behold, the eye of
the Lord is on those who fear Him, on those who hope in His
steadfast love.” A close relationship with the Lord produces
not only His presence, but also reverential awe and hope in His
steadfast love.
In a personal loving relationship with
someone greater and higher, there has to be recognition of who
is greater and higher right up front, and that is exactly what
the fear of the Lord does. If we humbly relate to Him with
reverential awe, a balance appears—each one relates to the other
exactly as they are. God does not become lower and we do not
become higher, but there is a mutual recognition of the
difference. Then the power of God’s love takes over and friends
begin to fellowship.
Maintaining Friendship with God
All of our personalities are different,
so there is no set way to relate to our Lord. However, there
are helps in the Scriptures. Some of them are listed below,
along with some of the Scripture references. (All Scripture
references would be too many to list.)
1. Ask the Lord for understanding and
wisdom as you read the Bible.
2. Forgive everyone who has offended you,
whether or not they ask for it. All of us, to one degree or
another, fail to forgive those who, knowingly or unknowingly,
have hurt us. It is here that we must choose to go on in the
new life God has given us. We must choose to continue to
receive His forgiveness by becoming a forgiver ourselves (see
Matthew 6:14, 15).
3. Get rid of all known sin. Pray for the
conviction of the Holy Spirit of unknown sin, and receive God’s
loving forgiveness.
4. Monitor any wrong thinking and continue
to receive His loving forgiveness on a daily basis as the
bedrock of you relationship.
5. Guard you mind, knowing that sin begins
in the mind. Get prompt forgiveness for sinful thoughts,
especially those produced by anger or a critical attitude. Ask
the Lord for His thoughts.
6. Turn away from the world. Be “in the
world, but not of the world.”
7. Keep your mind “stayed on Him” by
thanking Him in every circumstance of the day. Listen to hymns
and spiritual songs when you can, and hum, whistle, or sing
chorus songs when you can.
8. Refuse to be moody or depressed by
asking Jesus to raise His standard (the blood of the cross)
against Satan and his demons and ask for His peace and His joy.
9. Pray that God will help you to receive
His love and the filling of the Holy Spirit every day. Knowing
that leads to union with our Lord. Pray the prayer of
Jesus—that you would be in union with Him as He is in union with
the Father (John 17:19-26).
10. Commit the day into God’s hands every
morning. Be aware of any thoughts or Scripture that He may put
in your mind. Spend time in meditation with the Lord, asking
Him about the affairs of the day and the things that are on your
hear. Then clear your mind and listen for His “still small
voice.” That may take time because of the resistance of the
flesh. Our old sinful nature is very persistent, but we must be
more persistent. Be aware that there are three persons that
have access to our minds: God, the devil, and the flesh
(ourselves)—we must sort them out using the Bible as our guide.
11. Whenever you need answers to life’s
many questions, ask the Lord to give you a word about your need.
12. Know that you never have to be lonely;
Jesus is right there at the door knocking, waiting to fellowship
with you and to lead you into fellowship with our heavenly
Father (see Revelation 3:20).
Conclusion
The Bible says that God has given everyone
a measure of faith. Does it not make sense to exercise the
measure of faith that we already have and let it grow? As faith
increases, we receive more and more of God’s love and give Him
more and more of our love. It becomes a wonderful cycle of love
and faith. All of this is expressed in one sentence in
Galatians 5:6. It says, “Faith works through love.” If we want
more faith, we must allow it to “work” through a loving
relationship with our heavenly Father.
What we have been discussing is the most
important thing in anyone’s life. It is the very reason God has
placed us on this planet. He is a loving person who has a
need. He needs the love of His children. His love is not
complete until we love Him back. And His love is not fulfilling
until we enter a continuing relationship that allows Him to
bless us to the extent that we are able to fellowship with Him,
which is the reason for our very existence.
It is true that there is difficulty in
overcoming our old sinful nature called “the flesh,” but I
suggest to you that there is no other alternative if our lives
are to have meaning in this life and the life to come. It may
be that you are on this pathway of loving God; if not, you can
depend on Him to lead you as you develop your relationship.
We have seen that “the friendship of the
Lord is for those who fear Him.” We can all be a friend of
God if we fear Him. Most Christians love and respect David
because he was a “friend of God”—just read the psalms he wrote
and you will see why. It is because in humility, he had the
fear of God.
As we look upon our Lord with reverential
awe, you and I, with a full measure of His forgiveness, can have
the fantastic privilege of being a friend of the God of the
universe—the very One who created us.
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This message about receiving God’s love is
meant to help form an alliance of born-again Christians who see
the need for revival in ourselves and in others around the
world. Genuine revival will surely come as we encourage each
other to receive God’s love and love Him in return. We can help
each other as we seek God for the life-changing and
world-changing effects of revival. It is becoming very clear
that revival in the Church has already begun because more and
more believers recognize their need to be closer to God.
We hope that you will want to help us
promote an emphasis of the way to revival which is achieving a
personal, loving relationship with our heavenly Father through
Jesus our Lord.
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